One of the first things we received when we entered the MTC was our name tag. Our first tags were simple with our name and the name of the Church on it.
Later on we got name tags that included the words Military Relations under our names (which were underlined). It was quite normal to wear a name tag in the MTC-everyone else was wearing one. If you weren't a missionary, then you had a different tag identifying you.
When we went to the airport in SLC, it felt a bit different to be dressed up and wearing a name tag. We had one other senior couple on the plane with us going to Hawaii. They are working at the PCC now. Funny sidelight, we saw another senior missionary recently. She was at the MTC with us and is now working at the PCC (Polynesian Cultural Center). She didn't fly out until Monday after our Saturday flight-she had 27 young missionaries on the flight with her!
Anyway, when we arrived in Honolulu, we were greeted with hugs and kukui nut leis by President and Sister Bekker and by Elder and Sister Woods who were picking up the Senior Missionaries going to the PCC. We also were met by an office couple, the Overduyns, who came to the airport on their P Day (that is Preparation Day) to collect our luggage and help show us to our apartment. We have been treated with love and kindness here!!
We felt a bit odd going out to shop dressed up and wearing name tags. About an hour after we arrived at our apartment, we decided to go to the nearest store and get some groceries. We went to the deli at the store and while we were picking out some salads, the man behind the counter asked us about our name tags. We explained that we were on a mission for our church to which he replied that he had been thinking about going back to church! After our jaws returned from the floor, we said that we would love to talk to him more about it, but that we were so new here that we would like to come back in a couple of days. To make a long story short, he and his family have had two missionary discussion! I don't know what will happen in the long run, but we certainly could see the value of wearing our name tags!
Since then almost anytime we have shopped at the Navy Commissary or Costco, we have had someone say Hi to us and tell us about which ward they are in. I really laughed when one fellow said "Hi Cousin" to me. I asked him what he meant and he said that he wasn't LDS but he had relatives who were so that made us cousins! Of course, the first time we were in the Exchange someone asked Rex where the wine was-he thought it was a joke at first, but it turned out the man really thought that "Elder Bentley" was an employee!!
We went to a local Mexican restaurant the other night and when our bill came, it was half of what I had expected. When I asked the waiter about it, he said that the owner always gives a discount to missionaries! We thanked her and she told us she was in another ward that meets in the building we have been attending!!
One last story (sorry this is so long winded!): we had occasion to be walking on the beach at Waikiki when some young adults asked if we would like a lei. We said no thank you, and as we walked off someone said "they're missionaries", another young woman got very excited and said she was a member too!! She said she loves missionaries and asked if we would let her take a picture with us. We were delighted! Then she insisted on giving us each a lei-she said they were giving them out to advertise their grandmother's lei shop. It was a lovely ending to a lovely day in Hawaii!